Birthing Babies

I told Anna if we got to Friday and nothing had changed (to wit, baby born, un-to wit), then we’d go see the doctor. Well, we went and saw the doctor. Everything is fine with the both of them, but the baby, like all the others, will have to be evicted. Anna has required oxytocin every time. Like Ethan, this one is late being born, and the plancenta is showing calcification. So, needless to say, we will be going in tomorrow morning for an induction. If she stays consistent with prior births, the truant infant should be making her apperance in the evening sometime.

Water and Labor

Mbarara Pump HouseGot a bit of a scare yesterday. I read in the local paper that the water in the Rwizi river was getting low. This is the river that supplies Mbarara with it's H20 llifeline. We are in a drought at the moment. The rain we should be getting this time of year, we're not. I decided to go and check it out myself. So, I drove out to the local pumping station to take a look. Wouldn't you know, I passed Julious, a fellow I know from the early months here (he did a lot of the electrical work on the house). He happens to be an employee of the National Water and Sewer Department. Thanks to him, I got a full tour of the facility. The water in the river is a bit low, but it's not at the catastrophically low levels the paper made it sound. The only way we will run out of water here is if Bushene runs out, and they have been getting plenty of rain. However, that said, the lack of rain is going to hurt a lot of people who depend on their gardens for food. Pray for rain. 

Anna has been in labor all day. She ate some pineapple, which is supposed to help advance labor in some cases. It seems to be helping her. We went for a couple long walks today to keep things moving along. Pray that things continue, and conclude with a baby tomorrow. 

In other news, our mutual parents finally got the Christmas packages we sent in October. Sigh. It's not actually Uganda's fault this time. There has been an embargo on foregin mail in the US for months now, thanks to some mail bomb threats. Ah well, Christmas in March, right?

MISSION: Uganda Blog Update 03-02-2011

Greetings! This is actually the second time I've tried to write this. A couple weeks back I tried to write an email, and at the end, before I could save it, some bizarre javascript error happened and erased the whole thing. Needless to say, I was angry enough to beat a manatee to death with a snow shovel. I figured I'd better wait awhile and cool off so I could write an email and actually be Christlike at the same time. Then, in the interim, I got busy updating the website and just now got it all to the point where I can start blogging again. So, here we are.

No baby yet, although I hope to be able to communicate that news soon. Anna is QUITE ready to give birth. She made her goal of having Brennah's birthday land in March and not in February, which is top heavy with birthdays already, but now she'd like to be done please. Pray the labor will endure and result in a healthy birth, infant, and mother very soon.

We are doing well with our language study. Runyankore is a complex Bantu dialect with phonemic lengthening (almost tonal), 3 past tenses, 2 future tenses, and multiple cases that change the prefixes on everything. It's progressing, but slowly. Unless you're willing to fake tongues with the Pentecostals and spend several hours barking like dogs at 11 PM on a Saturday night, there's just no quick or easy way to reprogram your brain to speak another language. I try to be patient with the process, but it just feels so slow sometimes. The really awkward thing is how the Swahili we're learning out at the refugee camp keeps intruding into the mix. I'll find myself totally unable to remember the Runyankore for something, but the Swahili will be all I can think of. Aggravating.

I tell you, I'm very glad I went to BBTI to get the training in Phonetics and Linguistics I did. It has made the whole process a LOT easier than I suspect it otherwise would be. It helps in the English class I'm teaching at Ngarama an awful lot as well. Because I know what parts of the mouth are needed to make specific sounds, I can show the mostly Congolese people I'm instructing exactly how to make, for example, the 'r' sound. This involves circumflexing in American English, and tangles their tongue as badly as multiple flapped 'r's in a row does for us. We know what to listen for when learning speech, and how to replicate those sounds very well, so we can attempt to speak the language properly without a foreign accent. Our goal in all this of course is effective communication for ourselves, to preach the Gospel effectively without translators, and to bequeath literacy to them, to grant them true priesthood of the believer by learning to read the Bible for themselves. Those 10 months of hard work in rural Texas are continuing to pay eternal dividends. I honestly think the speed with which we have adapted to living here was largely facilitated by the cultural and language training we received at BBTI. It was well worth the financial and time investment. I am personally very grateful to the Cobbs and Alfords and others who labor in isolation in Bowie, TX to equip missionaries like me to be a success on the field.

I'm enjoying preaching, and being involved in the ministry long term in one place. Deputation bounces you around too much, so you never get to really scratch the surface on the Biblical text as thoroughly as you would like. It's good to be involved in people's lives long term as well, helping them reach the goals God has for them, equipping the saints as servants of Christ. We are prospering here in the sun and pleasant climate of Mbarara. We eat well, we live well, and we're all as healthy and happy as can be. It is deeply satisfying to be busy about the thing God intended you to do. Getting regular sleep doesn't hurt either. 🙂 I am very grateful for all your prayers, and for your financial support, which is continuing to make all this possible. I anticipate great things in the future, because I serve a great God.

God bless you all!

A Little Bit of the Mundane – Daily Life

I haven’t blogged in a while. I guess we just got really busy and then the thought of catching up is a little overwhelming. So I’m just going to jump in where we are.

Last June we started language study. Its been challenging to say the least! Most weeks we have at least 4 days where we spend an hour or two working on the language. That is about as much as our brains can absorb in a given day and then we just have to practice, practice, practice. It’s challenging because of the noun case system that they have that affects the verbs and other modifiers. You almost just have to memorize the various forms and then their variations. Complicating this is the 6 verb tenses. The verb changes form based on if it is present tense, today past, yesterday past, near future, distant future or distant past. Slowly, slowly we’re going through those to learn them better so we can actually understand them and use them. Thankfully, we’re getting to the place where we can understand things that those around us are saying.

Last June we also found out that baby #6 is on the way. The summer months were kind of rough. The morning sickness was really terrible and some days I couldn’t even get out of bed. Thankfully, by the time I was 12 weeks along, the morning sickness went away and I was able to do fine after that.

We started school in mid August. Its interesting juggling school, housekeeping tasks and language study. Sometimes its really overwhelming. But I really want to learn the language so we’ve been plugging away at it. The kids are doing great with school. Its nice to have designated school room. It’s the other half of our family room area. It means that the school books and supplies are contained in one place and aren’t leaking out into all the other places of the house. Gaelin started first grade this year. I was a little concerned that it might be beyond him but so far he hasn’t encountered any concepts he couldn’t figure out. I know 5 years old is a little young for first grade but we’ll take it a year at a time. He is really smart and gets bored easily so the challenge of it is good for him. The things that actually bother him the most are the mundane things – like handwriting and spelling. He’d far rather do his math or reading than those other things. It’s challenging for me, too, having 5 kids in 4 grades. Teaching long division one minute and carrying or renaming the next. Helping one student grasp the concept of a noun and then another student write an essay on a foreign country. But I really enjoy it!

We’re starting to feel like we are moved in. Our container arrived last July and we were able to get unpacked for the most part pretty quickly. James has been helping me get pictures hung. Once my sewing machine arrived I started making curtains for all the windows. Juggling that along with school made it take a long time but it got done. There were a few things that we couldn’t really unpack. One thing was our books. The bookshelves we had in America weren’t very good. They wouldn’t have survived long here. So last month James had some bookshelves made for us! After 11 months of being here (and longer for the books since they were some of the first things we packed in the states – some of them 3 years ago!) we finally got those unpacked! It’s like Christmas being able to find old friends and new discoveries in our library! The kids are loving it! It took a while but we finally have some avid readers in our family. Often I’ll go looking and find them curled up in their room with a book. Whenever boredom strikes I suggest another book. We also were able to get some shelves made for things like our towels and cleaning supplies and the kid’s toys and games. Its wonderful to feel a little more organized and not have to say “I have that but I don’t know where it is…..” I’m loving that!

We’re getting ready to plant our garden for this rainy season – if the rains will just get consistent for us. So far it has been a pretty dry rainy season. Last rainy season we didn’t get to plant a lot as we got started late and the ground wasn’t very good. But we’ve been working to get it ready and are just waiting for the rains to start. We’re going to plant tomatoes, green peppers, zucchini, broccoli, and peas. We’d like to eventually plant sweet corn as well and a couple other things too, maybe. We’ll see how all those other things do. We can get tomatoes and green peppers here but have to look harder for broccoli and zucchini is almost impossible to find. The local peas are more like split peas – sort of like a bean that you have to cook for a while. So if we grow our own we can harvest them earlier while they are still soft. They don’t quite taste like American sweet peas but will work fine in a pinch.

So that is a little about our every day life. A lot more happens daily than just that. Some days it feels like Grand Central Station around here and other days it is nice and quiet. But mostly it is just normal life that we’re adapting to little by little. 🙂

MISSION: Uganda Blog Update 01-24-2011

Hello again! It's been a busy few weeks. We got a welcome visit from Debbie Guimon, a member of our church in St. Louis, and a missionary to Uganda herself. She brought her son Matthew and her niece SaraBeth. It was so great having them here. I know our families and church family were wishing they could be the one coming, but they sent their love through Debbie. She brought many things that we needed and cannot get here, and also some very unexpected surprises. We have the greatest family and church family in the world. I find myself having to keep thoughts of them out of my mind because of the emotions of missing them those thoughts create. It's painful. We love it here. We're adapted here. There's aspects of American culture that I do not miss, at all – yet, I miss the people so very much. 

Probably the single greatest thing we got was the Betty Luken flannel graph set. We are teaching the children now, and I am teaching English. Having large, colorful, well done graphics to use with the children and with the English class is such an incredible help to us. Thank you so much Gary and Gloria! Thank you for all the spices, and the Kool-Aid, and the Ranch dressing mix, and the pens, and the innertubes, and the chocolate, and the CHEESE! It was like Christmas all over again. When I think how much work, and how much love went into getting it all ready for us and sent to us, it humbles and overcomes me. We love you guys, and all our supporting churches. We have the very best of people backing us, and it is such a blessing and encouragement to us.

Getting Debbie was an adventure. It was our first solo trip to the Capitol. We have good maps, and we have been a few times with the Bassett's, who used to live there, and they were able to show us where everything is. We drove out to Entebbe in the dark (not fun at all) to get her, and got there just in time. The trip back went well the next day, and we had a good time of fellowship here with her and the missionaries who were available at the time (the Stensaas' were gone to Kampala for some emergency dental work).
 
Going to the Capitol always has an element of risk. I successfully got her and her gang back to Kampala to meet Phyllis Hall and continue their grand Ugandan tour. Then I met my mechanic Ssuemko to pick up a generator (it's been a long time coming and very needed to protect our freezer full of food against extended power outages). He was going to Masaka (halfway between Kampala and Mbarara) to work on Matt Stensaas' car, so I offered to give him a ride. This decision turned out to be providential, because just outside of town we got in an accident.
 
It's miraculous that this kind of thing doesn't happen more often. The roads are atrocious here. They're poorly maintained. Erosion chips them away on the edges, thus making them narrow. There's lots of hills and blind turns, 20 year old trucks that have to creep up the hills in 1st gear, and pedestrians and bodas (motorbike taxis) everywhere. So if you, a mzungu, get in a wreck, it's automatically your fault. We came to one such a hill, and there was the obligatory petrol truck taking it's sweet time climbing the hill. The guy in front of me decided to overtake (pass). I followed him because a) he could see if anyone was coming, and b) there was a wide shoulder there where I could get over if someone did come. He merged in, and sure enough, here comes a car. So, I got over to let him by. For some reason, he panicked and also dodged onto the shoulder. By that time, there was a vehicle to my left, and a dirt hill to my right, so all I can do is hit the brakes. We were on loose soil, so of course, I skidded right into him. My car was only minimally damaged, and nobody in either vehicle was hurt, but his vehicle was totaled. I couldn't call Anna to let her know initially because my stupid phone was being twitchy that day (Ssuemko let me borrow his later so I could let her know what happened and that Ethan and I were okay).
 
So began the messy process of accident resolution in a 3rd world country. The cops (the real cops, in the urban camo uniforms and the AK-47s) showed up to secure the accident scene (directing traffic and discouraging a mob from forming and lynching the white guy). Then the traffic police (white uniforms) showed up to do their part, which is to complicate things and create confusion. We gave the folks in the other car a lift back to the station, and began negotiations as to how much I would have to pay for the damages – I was on the wrong side of the road, so I am at fault no matter what. Ssuemko totally saved the day. He was able to examine the guy's car and accurately diagnose the damage, and then call his parts supplier to get the exact costs of the parts. Then he negotiated with the traffic police as to how much bribe, er…., administrative costs I would have to pay to keep from being hauled off to court, which would have been catastrophic – he minimized that cost. Then, he negotiated with the other driver to minimize those costs (he was wanting approximately $1000, and we got him talked down to around $700). Then, he got him to sign the document that goes in a file there and says that I have paid for the repairs and he absolves me of all further liability. It was a God thing entirely. If he had not been with me, the whole thing would have been much, much worse. All this took until 6 PM to resolve, and I still needed to get Ethan and myself home.
 
Then began the journey home. I had Ssuemko drive to Masaka so he could feel and listen to the engine. No worries. We had to stop and adjust the headlights, because they were crooked and weren't lighting the road ahead well. I delivered Ssuemko to Keith Stensaas' place (Matt was having car troubles of his own, a cracked head gasket among other things), and then I began the drive back. Driving after dark is suicidal here. It is pitch black dark, everywhere. There is no ambient light, no streetlights, nothing to help you see, except your brights, which you must keep on so you can watch for pedestrians. In this country, there are people on the highway at all hours. Walking. Riding bikes. Riding motorcycles. In dark clothes with no reflectors or taillights on the bodas. Trucks are parked by the side of the road with no lights or warning reflectors of any kind. People get killed all the time here in accidents involving cars, and yet they still keep doing it, no matter how dangerous or foolish it is. It took me 4 hours to get from Masaka to Mbarara (normally a 2 hour drive) because I had to drive so slow. I almost passed the road that leads home because it is so dark you cannot read the signs, what few signs there are. I white-knuckled it the whole way home, and then collapsed into bed shortly thereafter. Needless to say, I won't be taking any more trips to Kampala if it can be avoided, and I will definitely not be driving after dark again. 
 
In other, more pleasant news, the English class in Ngarama is progressing well. The training we got at Baptist Bible Translators Institute has been invaluable. All I have done is adapt the same process I have been using to learn Runyankore and am using it to teach them English. There is no translator. I point at things and say the English word clearly, multiple times, and they repeat. I draw pictures on the chalkboard, and yesterday, I had the Betty Luken stuff as well. We have a mixture in the class. Some have a little English, and can read and write. Most have zero English, and cannot read and write at all. The phonetics I learned at BBTI allows me to identify which parts of the mouth they need to use to make a particular sound (R's are the worst), I show them how to do it, and then we practice. I'm really focussing on pronunciation. I want them to be able to speak English like an American when we're done. English is the Latin of this country. It's the language of education and business. It's how the wide variety of tribes and dialects are able to communicate with each other. Giving them English, and literacy along with it, is therefore a tremendous gift of knowledge, because it will make a way for them to improve their life, of which the greatest is the ability to read the Bible for themselves. Meanwhile, I am learning Swahili from them, along with the Runyankore we have been studying. As I told them on Sunday, I am teaching them English, but they are all my Swahili teachers. Anna is doing a great job teaching the children (another great opportunity to learn Swahili), and I am preaching in two preaching points. The ministry is going well and we are making good progress.
 
Pray for Anna and Brennah. The pregnancy is doing great. We have visited a local, private hospital here and will likely have the baby in Mbarara rather than Kampala. It's safer to do so (elections are coming up right near the due date), less stressful, and much, much cheaper. Our doctor in Kampala recommended the hospital we will be using, and having toured the place and interviewed the staff, I am satisfied that it is safe for us to have a baby here. Pray the birth goes smoothly and without complications. Continue praying for our safety and well being here. Pray for our health and finances. Pray for the ministry, that folks will continue to get saved, and that we will have the wisdom to lead them spiritually and teach and preach from God's word. Pray for our language learning as we move into more advanced concepts in Runaynkore, and look to eventually having to learn Swahili and French. Thank you all for your many prayers, thoughtful notes and care packages, and for your love and care for us.