This was sent to me by Debbie Guimon, Kyle's wife. I am forwarding it to you all, for those who need it.
James Huckabee
Missionary to Uganda
Kyle has often said, "What are you going to do, threaten me with heaven? Then I'll just get to bow at the feet of Jesus and thank Him for saving me and keeping my ornery soul out of hell." Well, I guess that's what he's doing now. On Sunday, I was alone at the hospital with Kyle a lot and God gave me a lot of hugs that evening. A group of church members from Walnut Ridge came over after church to visit in the waiting room and then a dear friend called and said she was on her way to stay with me overnight and on Monday. She arrived about 11 and Monday morning about 3 am while we were sleeping in the waiting room recliners, two nurses came in and woke us up. They told me that Kyle's heart had stopped and that they were doing CPR to get it started again. I was shocked and almost panicky. We immediately tired to call some people to pray fervently. Later on Monday, I found out that they had worked on him for a long time and finally gave up when the doctor told them to stop CPR. As they were straightening up the room a little, someone glanced up at the monitor and said they had a pulse and blood pressure! The nursing supervisor said she'd never seen anything like that. His heart stopped twice, but they got it going with medicine. The ventilator was doing all the breathing for him. The nurses let me stay in his room all day Monday for which I was so thankful. They told me that he would not live without dialysis, but he might not live through it. Many people prayed during the 3 hours he received it, and God let him make it through. They started very slowly decreasing the medicines that they had given him to get his heart beating and his heart rate and blood pressure stayed in ranges that were acceptable. I helped the nurses watch the time to remind them of when to turn the medicine down another notch, thankful to have something to do to help. We talked to Kyle as if he could hear us not knowing if he could or not since he couldn't respond. I read Psalm 27 and 91 to him. My friend had planned to go home Monday, but decided to spend the night again and go Tuesday morning instead. Kyle's parents stayed in a room in the hospital annex, and their pastor and his associate decided to stay all night in the waiting room recliners, too. I went to get blankets for them, and before I got back his heart had stopped again. This time they worked for 35 minutes and got nothing but flat line. The doctor who worked on him and my nurse friend and doctor friend who were with me, all 3 assured me that there was nothing else they could do. He was in heaven. The pastors took Bob and Nedra home and Alyson and I finished the night in their room. I cried and slept and showered, then we came back to Kyle's parents' home in Walnut Ridge. We had to race to get an obituary written by the weekly newspaper's deadline. I'm pasting the obituary below so you can read it for funeral information. Then I knew I had to let you all know what was going on so I'm writing this now. We go to the funeral home at 10 tomorrow morning to make the final arrangements. For those of you who want to come for the funeral, I will include motel arrangement information below. For anyone flying in, the Memphis airport is probably the closest, about 1 ½ hours away. We are also having an additional visitation at Gethsemane Baptist Church at 12 noon on Friday before the funeral for those who want to drive in from out of town Friday morning. Even though we are requesting that memorials be sent to SOAP instead of sending flowers, I know some people want to send flowers anyway. So I'll put local florist info below as well. If you want to send cards, the mailing address here at KyIe's parents' is PO Box 324, Walnut Ridge, AR 72476. The delivery address is 238 Robin Lane. I'm still thinking maybe I'll wake up and find out this is a horrible dream. Matthew will be here soon with our pastor and his wife from St. Louis. God knew just where he needed to be for just the right people to help him through this. Kyle's parents are having a hard time My sister and some of my dad's friends arranged to stay with Dad so that my mom could come up today. She'll go home tonight. Dad was so extremely close to Kyle that it is very, very hard on him not to be here. He says he will come for the funeral, but he can't travel yet. Please pray for all of us. I'm too overwhelmed to think. I greatly appreciate all of your prayers.
